Looking for the definition of a sexual term? We have them all! If you know what term you're looking for the definition of, just click the first letter of the word below and you'll automatically go to a list of definitions in alphabetical order. Otherwise, scroll down and browse while you educate yourself. We're sure you'll find terms you've never heard of before! A   B   C   D   E   F   G   H   I   J   K   L   M   N   O   P   Q   R   S   T   U   V   W   X Y Z A A/S/L - Age / Sex / Location ABSTINENCE - To refrain from having sex AC/DC - Meaning an individual who is bi-sexual. ACK SHACK - Establishment where girls provide private dances to customers. Usually the customer is told they may pleasure themselves. Do not expect HJ or F/S as these locations ACTIVE - The aggressive sexual partner ADULTERY - Sex between a married person and a person other than their spouse ALL CULTURES - All fetishes and sexual activities. AMBISEXUAL - Bisexual. Enjoying sexual encounters with both sexes ANALINGUS - Kissing, licking and penetration of the anus by the tongue ANGEL - Male who pays for sexual acts ANUS - The opening of the rectum AREOLA - The ring of darkened skin around the nipple of the breast AROUND THE WORLD - The act of kissing the entire body as a prelude to sex ASIAN - Oral sex on the anus. Rimming / Analingus ASS - The buttocks ASSHOLE - The anus ATYPICAL SEXUAL BEHAVIOR - Sexual activity that is not one of the more common activities AUNTIE - An aging male homosexual AUTO-EROTICISM - Masturbation AUTO-FELLATIO - Performing fellatio on ones own penis AUTO-SADISM - An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself AXILIARY INTERCOURSE - Sexual climax achieved by moving the erect penis back and forth in the armpit AXILLARY HAIR - Armpit hair B B & D - This stands for bondage and discipline. B/F - Bi Female. BAACHARU DEITO - A type of Japanese fetish film shot from the point of view of the boyfriend. The couple goes on a date, which ends in sex. BACK DOOR - This is slang commonly used by swinger for anal sex. BACK SCUTTLE - Perform anal intercourse BACK YARD - The buttocks BACULUM - Male walruses have an extra bone to help support copulation. It's called a baculum. Human males don't have one, but the human penis is longer than many of us are. The penis doesn't end when it disappears under the pubic bone. You just don't see the part that extends under the scrotum and splits into a Y. The branches of this Y attach to the pair of bones that join the pubic bone and the bone at the base of the buttocks. The penis is thus anchored so that it can follow the movements of the pelvis during intercourse. BAG - The scrotum BALLS - The testicles BANANA - The penis BARE-ASSED - Nude BARTHOLIN'S GLANDS - Two tiny ducts located on either side of the vaginal entrance. They secret a small amount of fluid during sexual arousal, their exact purpose is unclear. BASKET - The bulge made by male sex organs in jeans, briefs & trunks BASKET SHOPPING - Observing the male genitalia through clothing BBBJ - Bare back blow job , no condom BBW - Big Busty Woman, or Big Beautiful Woman. BDSM - Bondage, discipline, sadomasochism BEAT OFF - Masturbation BEEFCAKE - Male possessing sex appeal BENT STICK - A penis that is not erect BI - An individual who enjoys both heterosexual and homosexual activities BI CURIOUS - Willing to experiment with a member of the same sex. BI-SEXUAL - One enjoys both sexes BITCH - A loose woman or feminine male BJ - Blow Job BLIND - An uncircumcised penis BLOW - To perform oral intercourse BLOW JOB - The act of oral intercourse on a male BLUE MOVIES - Porno movies BONDAGE - When an individual is sexually aroused when being restrained or is subject to corrective treatment by another. (B & D) BONER An erection BONKERS - Female breasts BOOBS - Female breasts BOTTOM - Submissive partner BRING OFF - Ejaculation in the male BROTHEL - A house of prostitution BUMMER - Active partner in anal sex BUNS - The buttocks BUTCH - A lesbian who dresses and acts in a very masculine manner C CALL GIRL - A prostitute who works outcall from a home or office CAN ENTERTAIN - Will swing in their own home. CAN TRAVEL - Will swing in your home. CANDY MAKER - A woman or man who masturbates a male and then consumes the ejaculated semen CARPOPEDAL SPASM - Contractions of the hands or feet occurring during orgasm CASTRATION - Render the testicles inoperable by surgery CBJ - "Covered Blow Job" Oral sex with a condom CELIBATE - Someone who does not engage in sexual activity CERVICAL CAP - A small rubber contraceptive barrier that fits over the cervix. smaller than a diaphragm and is held in place by suction CERVIX - The tapered lower end of the uterus that opens into the vagina CHASTE - To engage in the most ordinary sexual activities CHASTITY - Sexual abstinence CHEAT - To be unfaithful to one's regular sex partner CHEEKS - Fleshy portions of buttocks CHERRY - One who is still a virgin or slang for the hymen CHUCKHOLD - A man whose wife deceives him by having a sexual relationship with another man. CIM - Come in mouth CIRCLE JERK - Male group masturbation CIRCUMCISION - Surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis CLIMAX - To achieve the high point of sexual activity. often refers to ejaculation by the male CLIT - The clitoris CLITORAL HOOD - The fold of skin covering the clitoris CLITORIS - Get ready for a surprise! If you're a woman, you've got more genitalia than most books say you do. Located between the upper reaches of the labia, the little bulb we call a clitoris is only the tip of a system of erectile tissue that includes the famed G-spot, too. In fact, the extended clitoris has 18 parts, including a shaft, hood, glands, and two "crura" or legs, all of which make up the corpora cavernosa. If these terms sound familiar, it's because they're also the names of parts of the penis that function similarly. The corpora cavernosa in females engorges with blood during arousal just as the penis does. CLOSED SWINGING - This is where partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in separate rooms. CLOSET QUEEN - A male homosexual who hides his desires for other men COCK - The penis COCKSUCKER - One who performs oral intercourse on the penis COCKTEASER - One who excites a male without carrying on to actual sexual relations COITUS - Sexual intercourse COITUS IN ANO - Anal intercourse COITUS INTERRUPTUS - Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation COLD - Unresponsive to sexual relations COME - To achieve sexual orgasm CONDOM - Rubber sheath worn on the penis CONTINENCE - To refrain from sexual activity CONTRACEPTION - The prevention of contraception the use of birth control devices or agents CONTRACEPTIVE FILM - Small square of spermicide inserted into the vagina to help protect against pregnancy CONTRACEPTIVE FOAM - A spermicidal foam that is inserted into the vagina with an applicator prior to intercourse where it helps protect against pregnancy COPULATION - Vaginal intercourse CORNHOLE - Anal intercourse CORONA - Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis CORPORA CAVERNOSA - The spongy erectile tissue in both male and female genitalia that becomes engorged with blood during sexual arousal CORPUS SPONGIOSUM - A column of erectile tissue that runs the length of the penis and encloses the urethra COW GIRL - Girl on top CREAMPIE - The sexual fluids left in a woman when a man or several men have ejaculated inside her vagina. CROSS-DRESSING - Wearing clothes of the opposite sex CROTCH - Juncture of the thighs with the body; the genitals area CRUISE - The hunt for a sex partner CUM - Semen CUNNILINGUS - To kiss, lick or suck the female sex organs. CUNT - The vagina D D/F - Dominant Female. D/M - Dominant Male. DAISY CHAIN - A group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people by oral connections DDF - Disease and Drug Free. DEEP THROAT - Oral sex in which the male's partner is able to overcome their gag reflex and take the penis deeply into their mouth and sometimes down their throat DERRIERE - The buttocks DETUMESCENE - The return of an erect penis to its flaccid state DEVIANT SEXUAL BEHAVIOR - Sexual behavior that diverges from the norm DFK - "Deep French Kissing" Kissing with intense and deep tongue contact DIAPHRAGM - A saucer shaped rubber contraceptive device that is filled with spermicide and inserted into the vagina to block the cervical opening DICK - The penis DIDDLE - To perform masturbation DILDO - A device used for sexual stimulation by inserting into the vagina or anus often in the shape of a phallus DISCIPLINE - Disciplinary actions which arouse sexual desires, from mild to painful spankings. DOGGIE STYLE - Sexual position used by k9's. Sex with man entering women vaginally from the rear. DOMINATION AND SUBMISSION (D & S) - Sexual pleasure derived from acting out fantasies in which person dominates and one submits DOMINATRIX - In bondage and discipline, a woman who specializes in dominating and disciplining a partner DONG - The penis DP - This stands for double penetration. DRAG QUEEN - Male who dresses in female clothing DRIVE IT HOME - Forceful intercourse DRY FUCK - Moving against one another, clothed to simulate intercourse (dry hump) E EASY - A person who needs little persuasion to perform sex acts EAT - To perform oral sex EFFEMINATE - Descriptive of a male who acts in a feminine manner EJACULATE - Discharge from the penis during sexual climax ENEMA - To introduce a liquid such as water into the rectum often used ad punishment in S&M or for pleasure ENGLISH - Sadism and masochism EROS - The Greek's term for passionate or erotic love EROTIC AID - Any device used to enhance sexual responsiveness. e.g. vibrator or dildo EROTICA - Sexual material that is not considered pornographic to the viewer EUNUCH - A male who has had his testicles and/or penis removed EXH - Exhibitionism. EXHIBITIONIST - A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others F FAMILY JEWELS - The testicles FANNY - The buttocks FELLATIO - To take a penis into the mouth to suck & lick it for sexual arousal. FEMME - A feminine acting lesbian FETISH - Any object or part of the body which is normally considered non-sexual but which arouses erotic feelings such as leather, rubber, feet, balloons, panties, etc. FFFF - A foursome involving four females. FIFTH WHEEL - A heterosexual in a homosexual group FISTING - To place the hand into a vagina or rectum FOREPLAY - Foreplay is any erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse. It's usually thought of as all the sweet seductions close to or in the bed: kissing, hugging, licking, touching, teasing, but it can occur while fully dressed, setting the scene hours (or even days) before the planned lovemaking. The key to effective foreplay is that it be thoughtful, personal, and caring. FRENCH - Oral sex. FULL BODY MASSAGE - Sensual massage over all parts of the body. One would expect a hand job with this service G G/S - Golden Shower. GANG BANG - Group sex where one is fucked consecutively by many GET IT UP - To achieve an erect penis GET SOME - To attain sexual intercourse with someone GET YOUR ROCKS OFF - To ejaculate GFE - "Girlfriend Experience" Service that provides the fantasy of a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship. Usually involves close intimate contact including but not limited to kissing and cuddling. GIVE HEAD - To perform oral intercourse GLORY HOLE - An opening cut into the partition between two commode stalls in a men's restroom through which oral intercourse can be performed GO DOWN ON - To perform oral intercourse GOLDEN SHOWER - One person urinates on another for sexual pleasure GOOSE - Press a finger into the cleavage of the buttocks GREEK - A slang word used for anal intercourse. GROPE - To handle another's genitals G-SPOT - A debate about the existence and importance of the G-spot has been going on for many years. Now a gynecologist in Malaysia says he's identified two more spots within the vagina that have functions in sexual arousal, the A-spot and the U-spot. Named for Ernst Graffenberg, the German scientist credited with its discovery, the G-spot is thought to be a mound of tissue on the front upper wall of the vagina that fills with blood during arousal. G-STRING - A small brief worn over the genitals, with only a small amount of fabric on the backside. H HAIRCUT FETISH - An odd type of Japanese fetish film of women getting their hair cut, usually just normal haircuts. HAND JOB (HJ) - Masturbation, particularly at the hands of another HAND MADE - A large penis allegedly developed through masturbation HARD ON - An erect penis HARD UP - Lack of sexual activity and need for a sex partner HEDONIST - One who lives for pleasure. HETROSEXUAL - One who desires sex only with the opposite sex HOMOSEXUAL - One who desires sex only with the same sex HORNY - Sexually aroused; passionate HORSE AROUND - To explore sexually without engaging in intercourse HOT PANTS - Sexually aroused HUNG - To describe the size of a large penis HUSTLER - Prostitute that searches for customers I IMPOTENT - Unable to engage in sexual intercourse INCALL - Service where you go to the providers location INCEST - Sexual relations between family member INDOOR SPORTS - Swinging activities in general. INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP - They want more than just sex. They would like a relationship that is deeper than just a sexual encounter. ISO - In Search Of... J JACK OFF - To masturbate JAIL BAIT - One who is under the age of legal consent JERK OFF - To masturbate JOHN - One who financially supports another for sexual favors JOINT - The penis K KICKS - Sexual thrill KNOCK OF A PIECE - To have sexual intercourse L LABIA - Folds of erectile tissue that together make the vulva and guard the entrance to the urethra and vagina. LACE CURTAINS - The foreskin of the penis LAVENDER - Pertaining to the homosexual lifestyle LAY - To perform sexual intercourse LESBIAN - A female homosexual LIBIDO - It's a biological fact that in both sexes, the sex drive is powered by the hormone testosterone. But emotions and attitudes will always be stronger than any hormone. Create a positive attitude toward your own sexual pleasure, and you'll have the most important engine of the sex drive working in your favor. LIFESTYLE - Generally refers to those who choose swinging as a "lifestyle". LINK LIST - A link list is a website, which has links to many adult websites. LOAD - The fluid from an ejaculation M M.I.L.F. - Mother I'd Like to Fuck. A sexually attractive middle-aged woman. MAKE OUT - To succeed sexually MAKE-OUT SLUT - A woman who tends to kiss many men but rarely (or never) has sexual intercourse. MARY - An effeminate-acting male MASOCHISM - The sexual desire to receive pain or to be humiliated. MASTURBATION - Giving oneself sexual pleasure, especially using the hand to stimulate the genitals, and often resulting in orgasm. MASTURBATORY - Relating to or similar to masturbation. MASTURBILIA - Something used during masturbation, like a picture, article of clothing, or other object, that reminds the person masturbating of someone they are fantasizing about. Derived from combining "masturbation" and "memorabilia". MATINEE - A sex session in the afternoon MEAT - The penis MEET FOR PLEASURE - Meet for swinging sex. No pretense to a social or emotional situation. MEET N GREET - Basically, a "meet and greet" is just getting together in person for the first time. It usually happens in a public place (for safety reasons) and sometimes includes having dinner or a drink. "Get to know each other" talk to make sure no one is lying about who they are (happens often on Swinger sites) and see if we want to take things any further. MENAGE A TROIS - When three people have sex together at once. A threesome. MISSIONARY POSITION - The "traditional" sexual position in the West, where the woman lies on her back with her legs spread and the man mounts her with his arms supporting his weight. MISTRESS - A dominant woman in a BDSM relationship; a dominatrix. MONEY SHOT - The climactic scene in a porn film when the man ejaculates, usually onto the woman's body or face; a cum shot. MUD FLAP - A name for the foreskin on a male penis that likes to travel the anal highway MULTIORGASMIC - Prone to having multiple orgasms. MULTIPLE ORGASM - Also multiple climax - Having more than one orgasm in a single sex session, especially in rapid succession. Usually experienced by women. MUTUAL MASTURBATION - Where partners manipulate each other's genitals MWC - Married White Couple. N NARCISSISM - One who is stimulated by one's own body NECK - To embrace, kiss and fondle NIPPLES - There is a direct nerve path from the nipples to the clitoris and penis. The nipples of both genders become erect because they are made of the same erectile tissue as the clitoris and penis. NS/LD - Non Smoker, Light Drinker. NUTS - The testicles NYMPHOMANIAC - Woman with intense preoccupation with sexual desires and inability to achieve an orgasm O OFF PREMISE - These are events in which sexual activity is prohibited at the party. If members wish to get together sexually they either go to a hotel, home, or else where for pleasure. OLD DIRT ROAD - Using the anus for intercourse OLD MAN - One who supports a younger sex partner ON PREMISE - These are events usually held at house parties or private clubs. Sexual activities are allowed in designated areas or bedrooms. There are also safe rooms where sexual activities are not allowed to take place. ONE NIGHT STAND - A sexual affair between two or more people who will probably never see each other again ONE WAY - Will perform only one type of sexual activity OPEN SWINGING - This kind of swinging allows partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room, or bed. ORAL INTERCOURSE - A sexual activity whereby the mouth of one person is used in connection with the sexual organs of another person to produce sexual gratification ORGASM - Find a way to have one and you'll enjoy an explosion of endorphins and oxytocin in the brain as well as the involuntary contraction of genital muscles that produces such a feeling of pleasure. Orgasm brings forth waves and waves of the body's natural painkillers. Fresh blood is circulated in the genitals. The release of stored tension in muscles and emotions helps heal ailments and relieves headache. For men, orgasm can happen without an erection or ejaculation. For women, orgasms can cause ejaculation. OUT PERSONALS - Worldwide gay personals OUTCALL - Service where the provider comes to you P PANSY - A male homosexual PARTIES - These are events of group swinging with more than one couple. This is not to be mixed up with orgies. Private rooms can be used, but all swingers are under one roof. PASSIVE - Partner that does not take the lead, who follows what their partner wants PEARL DIVER - One who performs oral sex on the penis PEARL NECKLACE - Ejaculating on neck and chest of your partner PECKER - The penis PEDERASTY - Insertion of the penis into the anus PEEPING TOM - A voyeur PENIS - The male sex organ consisting of head, shaft and base. The body part that determines a human is male, the penis is important to sexual functioning, reproduction, and elimination. Did you know that the vagina is able to compensate for a small penis? PERINEUM - The perineum is the span of skin between a woman's genitals and anus, and between a man's scrotum and anus. It is a "hot spot" for both sexes, meaning it's very sensitive and, when stimulated, may produce considerable erotic arousal. Deep penetration of the vagina or the rectum may stimulate nerves in this area. PERVERT - One who receives sexual gratification from kinky sex acts PETER - The penis PHALLUS - The penis PICKUP - Stranger who is induced to go elsewhere for sex PISS HARD ON - An erect penis caused by the need to urinate POCKET POOL - Masturbating through pants pocket POKE - To engage in sexual intercourse PORN - Short for pornography, porno is the portrayal of any and all sort of sexual acts and quirky fetishes on any form of visual media. PRE-CUM - Natural lube which oozes from the penis PRICK - The penis PRO - A prostitute PROSTATE - Glands at base of urethra which eject semen PSE - "Porn Star Experience" Service that provides the fantasy of being with a porn star. A no holds (holes) bared approach. Very high level of interaction that rivals that of the adult movie industry. PT - A prick teaser PUNK - A male prostitute PUSHOVER - Easily persuaded to engage in sex PUSSY - Vagina Q QUEEN - An effeminate male homosexual QUEER - Homosexual QUICKIE - A very brief sex act R RECREATIONAL SWINGER - One who practices swinging as a recreational diversion. RECTUM - The tube between the colon and the anus RELEASE - (with /) Orgasm REMOTE CONTROL VIBRATOR 24 HOUR - A Japanese television show in which a women goes through her normal day wearing a powerful vibrator while a pornographer remotely triggers the device, hoping to cause embarrassing situations. REVERSE COWGIRL - Sexual intercourse with women on top facing the mans feet RIM - To use the tongue on the anus ROD - The penis ROMAN - Group sex. Orgies. This is where unrestrained multiple sexual activities occur all in one room. RUBBER - A Condom RUSSIAN - Sexual contact between breast and penis. S S/M - Sadism and Masochism. SADISM - Sexual stimulation associated with the desire to inflict pain, physical or mental, on another SADOMASOCHISM - Both sadism and masochism existing in the same person SAFE - Male with vasectomy or female with hysterectomy or tubal ligation. (This means that he or she is unable to become pregnant or to impregnate respectively.) SAFE SEX - Using condoms. SCORE - To achieve sexual intercourse SCREW - The act of sexual intercourse SCROTUM - The pouch or sac which contains the testicles SEA FOOD - A sailor as a sex object SEMEN - The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male SENSUAL MASSAGE - Massage intended to stimulate the senses often performed nude or partially disrobed SHOOT - To achieve orgasm SIXTY-NINE - Genital oral intercourse performed on each other simultaneously by two partners SLOPPY SECONDS - Having sexual intercourse with a woman who already has had one or more men ejaculate inside her vagina. SMEGMA - White matter which collects under the foreskin of penis SMUT - Obscenity in speech or writing. Pornography. SNOWBALLING - This is when a guy is with two girls and jizzes in one of their mouths and then they swap it back and forth. First known public use of the word was in the movie "Clerks" in the movie they claimed it was when a girl gives your own ejaculate back to you with a kiss SOCIAL - It is an event that is organized in a get-acquainted area of neutral ground, such as a restaurant, or dance hall. These are often followed by a party. SOFT SWING - Where two couples will agree to watch each other during sexual activities. SPERM - The fluid that erupts from the penis during ejaculation SPNG - Spanking STABLE - A group of prostitutes managed by a pimp STALLION - A male who possesses a very large penis STDF - Sexual Transmitted Disease Free. STRAIGHT - A heterosexual STRANGER - It's when your hand falls asleep and you jack off; in other words, you cannot feel your hand so it feels like someone else is doing it STUD - A male who is in great demand as a sex partner SUBMISSIVE - Passive, wishes to be dominated. SUCK OFF - To perform oral intercourse on the penis SUGAR DADDY - A man who keeps a younger person for sexual favors SWAPPING - This mean the exchanging of partners by two couples. SWINGER - It is when one or as part of a couple engages in recreational sex. SWINGER LIFESTYLE - This is a lifestyle where a couple or individual enters into for the purpose of engaging in intimate, sexual activities with a partner or partners other than their own. SWINGING - This is where two or more couples agree to get together for the express purpose of engaging in intimate, sexual activities with a partner or partners other than their own. SWISH - A male who behaves in a feminine manner SWITCH HITTER - A bi-sexual T TEA ROOM - A public men's rest room TESTICLES - The testis, which look like oval shaped balls, are actually hundreds of feet of tubes packed tightly together and covered in a strong sheath. In these tubes, sperm are produced along with testosterone, the hormone responsible for sex drive and "maleness" in both sexes as well as male characteristics such as the baritone voice, lot of body hair, sex organs and oversized muscles. THIRD SEX - Homosexuals TLC - Tender Loving Care. TONGUE (VERB) - To perform oral intercourse TOOL - The male genitals TOOLBOX - Vagina TOP - Dominant partner TRADE - A passive male prostitute who caters to homosexuals TRICK - A sex partner TURN A TRICK - To take on a sex partner for money U URETHA - Duct which carries urine and semen UROLAGNIA - Sexual pleasure from watching another drink urine V VACUUM CLEANER - One who applies great suction during oral sex VAGINA - Orifice of female sex organs VAGINAL FLUID - Sugar & Spice - Vaginal fluid is secreted from 100s of tiny glands within the walls of the vagina, making the vagina appear as if it's sweating during arousal. The fluid is made up of glucose and fructose VANILLA SEX - Any sex acts that are not kinky VASECTOMY - Vasectomy is a surgical procedure for sterilizing men. It involves removing a small portion of the vas deferens, a tube inside the penis that connects and carries sperm from the testicles to the urethra, thereby preventing sperm from entering the ejaculate. VERSATILE - Bi-sexual VIRILITY - The sexual power and capacity of a male VOY - Voyeurism, someone who Likes to watch. VOYEUR - One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engage in sexual acts VOYEURISM - It is observing others who are engaged in sexual activities such as in the act of undressing, or sexual exhibitions. W WATER SPORTS - This is a form of sexual stimulation where one urinates on other. WHAM BAM - Rapid and hurried sexual activity WHAT'S NEW - Where to find updates and links WIENER - The penis WORK OFF - To masturbate WORK UP - To create passion or to be passionate XYZ YMMV - "Your Mileage May Vary" Different service provided to different people Depends on the providers mood and chemistry between client and provider

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